What more important than your life?

After came back from johor,i took a very long snap in my bed, my wife though that i may be too tired, but me was too tired about my life that beyond my control.I love my family,my parent, my bro, my sis and my nephew. I should spend more time with them, i should pay more attention about their need, not the other way round on my routine job.
I realise that i have done so wrong in the past to focus on the place that is not my main concern, job is just a tool to have good life with the one that i love, i should not let my times occupied most by the work.I feel a little depress on what i have done all the time.
This is a very long long time snap that i ever have in my life, but it worth cause now i am more clear on what is important in my life, i want to have quality time with all my lovely family.